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For most people with Asperger’s it’s a day to day challenge to feel safe and understood by neurotypical people.
In many ways, they become a link between their Aspie and society. Because the Aspie does not have the same relational needs as the NT partner, he may be unable to recognize instinctively or to meet the emotional needs of his partner.
Marriages can thus form some dysfunctional relationship patterns.
This is why making a portfolio of your work is so important.
A man/woman with Aspergers has to compensate for poor social skills by making themselves so good in a specialized field that individuals will be willing to "buy" their skill even though social skills are poor.
If there is open communication, the NT partner can help her Aspie to improve in areas of weakness and encourage him in the things he is naturally good at. Aspies often has a specific area of weakness in marriage.
They often do not feel the need to express love, and the NT partner can help them understand that this is important. As young adults, they are often emotionally immature and have poor social skills.
Although Aspies (i.e., people with Aspergers) do feel affection towards others, relationships are not a priority for them in the same way that it is for neurotypicals or NTs (i.e., individuals without Aspergers). An NT partner needs to understand her Aspie’s background in order to work with him on their marriage.
She will need patience and perseverance as well as understanding that he functions on a different emotional level to her. Aspies do marry, and while NT partners can be frustrated by their lack of emotion and physical contact, their Aspergers spouses do bring strengths into the relationship.
Approximately 80% of grown-ups with Aspergers and High Functioning Autism (HFA) do not have full-time jobs – not because they can’t do the work, but because they often have difficulty being socially acceptable while they get the work done.